Dominance isn’t an addiction; it doesn’t come to replace rage, frustration or discomfort. It cannot substitute for emotions or help to escape from feeling them. It cannot alleviate pain. At those times, it seems that submissives are absent or unavailable, that our magnetic personality is absent, it seems that nothing good will ever happen. We feel undesirable and lost. Some of us try force it, but we fail, over and over.
Dominance is joy and comfort in itself and of itself. It doesn’t give you power, it is an expression of your power over yourself. It can be calm as a summer breeze, or edgy as the winter storm. But it is also controlled and loving.
When the winds of life make us bend, when the emotions are so strong that we are silenced and frozen, we lose sight of who we are, and all we can do is concentrate on our own survival. At those times our dominance has no energy and it hides in the recesses of our minds, like a low burning flame, to remind us of better times. There is no point in trying to ignite that flame. We just need to ride out the storms of life and use our power for survival.
When the storm passes and the sun comes out of hiding, it will restore our soul and warm the dormant seeds of power. When we feel whole again, our power will shine and with it our dominant soul.
Dominance is joy and comfort in itself and of itself. It doesn’t give you power, it is an expression of your power over yourself. It can be calm as a summer breeze, or edgy as the winter storm. But it is also controlled and loving.
When the winds of life make us bend, when the emotions are so strong that we are silenced and frozen, we lose sight of who we are, and all we can do is concentrate on our own survival. At those times our dominance has no energy and it hides in the recesses of our minds, like a low burning flame, to remind us of better times. There is no point in trying to ignite that flame. We just need to ride out the storms of life and use our power for survival.
When the storm passes and the sun comes out of hiding, it will restore our soul and warm the dormant seeds of power. When we feel whole again, our power will shine and with it our dominant soul.